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Quality Time – The Best Tradition

Our Favorite Holiday Traditions, Continued

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Point to Ponder:
What are you looking forward to most this Christmas?

by Neissa Brown Springmann

by Neissa Brown Springmann

It recently occurred to me that I am responsible for creating my children’s holiday memories and traditions… which freaks me out! I am trying really hard to not make Christmas all about Santa, receiving gifts, etc, but I have found myself using Santa an an incentive to “be good and kind, listen to Mommy and Daddy and eat all of your food.” UGH! In moments of desperation, it’s nearly impossible to not. And while I haven’t mustered up the courage to go to the mall so Durant and Malaine can see Santa (and Malaine can scream her head off), or take them to the Trail of Lights (EEK!), it dawned on me that I can’t forget to leave milk, cookies and carrots for Santa and his reindeer. It’s all part of the magic of Christmas, right?…and it’s all up to me to not forget anything!!

However, after re-reading all of the beautiful and various traditions from our Leaders in last week’s journal, it occurred to me that everyone’s favorite traditions (including my own) are about how we spend time together, and nothing else. My holiday goal is to stay sane and joyful, so quality time will be my primary focus. I can definitely make that happen and will stay off of Pinterest and Facebook to avoid seeing all of the elaborate and creative things other moms are doing for their homes and children. Comparison is the thief of joy, right?! Yes!

For a few more of our favorite holiday traditions, leaders Sha and Jill share their favorites, which also happen to be time-focused. Here’s to quality time together, the most important tradition of them all!

“We love our very busy Christmas Eve tradition. Every Christmas Eve we travel to Waco for the Klatt family reunion. Sometimes it seems like a lot of effort, but once we get the 5 of us in the car, we love our together time. We leave early in the morning and always stop at Monument Cafe in Georgetown for a fun breakfast. Once we get to Ganny’s house (Mike’s mom), we each stuff something in the 10 stockings hanging by the fire, then we commence “opening” them. After the larger family reunion lunch, we head back to Austin for a wonderful, festive, delicious dinner/party at a neighbor’s house. At 10:30pm we head to Good Shepherd for the beautiful Christmas Eve candlelight service, where a lovely small orchestra leads us in gorgeous Christmas hymns. It is a long, full day, but we fall into bed after midnight filled with the love of family, friends, and Faith that this season brings.” -Sha

unnamed-70“One of our family traditions that we started when my girls were babies is before opening one gift on Christmas Eve, we gather around the Christmas tree to read “‘Twas the Night Before Christmas.” Avery, my oldest daughter, received the book as a gift from grandparents her first Christmas, and it’s the same version we read together every year. It’s that special something that brings us all together for just a moment. We always do it right before bedtime. It is a tradition that they still enjoy very much, and will hopefully continue with their children one day.”
-Jill

Action Item:
Amid the holiday chaos, make a conscious effort to briefly stop and simply observe and enjoy quality together time with loved ones.

Our Favorite Holiday Traditions

“First we’ll make snow angels for two hours… then we’ll go ice-skating…
then we’ll eat a whole roll of Toll House cookie dough as fast as we can…
and then we’ll snuggle!”
– Buddy the Elf

Point to Ponder:
What holiday tradition are you most looking forward to?

by Neissa Brown Springmann

by Neissa Brown Springmann

Until my dad’s mother passed away ten years ago, we spent every Christmas Eve at her house in Liberty Hill. My dad is one of seven children, making me the youngest of twenty-two grandchildren, so by the time you throw in seven spouses and thirty-six great-grandchildren, Mamaw’s three bedroom, one bathroom house was overflowing — just as her septic tank did… every single Christmas Eve.

I have so many fond Christmas Eve memories: getting to Mamaw’s house early so we could claim our seat on the couch, my aunt Betty’s famous cheese ball, candy canes hanging from every branch of the Christmas tree, Mamaw giving each grandchild two dollars and each couple ten dollars, her consistently misspelling my name on my card, and family members walking in the house and me whispering to my sister, ‘Who’s that?’ While we saw Mamaw several times a year, we only saw the whole family on Christmas Eve, and with so many of us it was impossible to remember everyone as the families grew and spouses changed, frequently.

Needless to say, Christmas Eve has always been a special time for my family, and when Mamaw passed away we decided to keep the Christmas Eve tradition alive and host it at our house. Unfortunately, our extended family members do not join us, though my mom and her husband, my dad and step-mom, my sister’s family and any friends who don’t have family near by come over. We keep it real simple! We graze through a delicious spread of food, watch the movie Elf, spend time together, and then around 5:00 head to Riverbend Church for the annual Candlelight service.

Following the service we come back to my house where we let the kids open a few presents, pop open a bottle of wine, eat dinner, turn on A Christmas Story and get ready for the big day which always entails me staying up extra late to wrap presents and watch A Christmas Story over and over again while Russell begs me to watch a different movie. It’s my favorite (as it is for another leader below)!

While traditions come in all shapes and sizes, and even sometimes come wrapped in a big dysfunctional bow (like they time my cousin showed up at my grandmother’s on Christmas Eve claiming to be a warlock), they are all memories that add meaning and some good story-telling to our life.

As you ponder some of your favorite holiday traditions, enjoy the following favorite holiday traditions from some our leaders:

unnamed-63“My favorite tradition is waking up with my family on Christmas morning, staying in our pajamas, and slowly opening gifts around the Christmas tree while A Christmas Story plays 24/7 on TBS. We enjoy each other’s company and don’t feel the need to rush to the kitchen to prepare for our lunch. I love the simplicity of it!”
-Molly

unnamed-64“Starting after Thanksgiving, before bedtime we all sit together as a family and watch a Christmas show. We like to stick to classics like, “Frosty”, Santa Claus is coming to town”, Charlie Brown….etc.”
-Meg
unnamed-66 unnamed-65“Every year the week before Christmas we have a BIG birthday party to celebrate my triplets, who were born on December 17th. They turn 26 this year! Now that they are all working it has become hard to gather everyone, but it is always a fun party when we finally get them all in town. I still remember their first Christmas — WOW what a whirlwind! Love my girls!”
-Kathleen
unnamed-67“The very word ‘tradition’ makes me a little anxious, and at my ripe age of ‘I’ll-never-tell’, I am finally okay with that. The reason that I cringe upon hearing that word — especially at this time of year — is because, well…here goes — Brandy Milk Punch. At Christmas. Every year. In the morning. When I was a kid. Now I am not saying that one shouldn’t imbibe at Christmas in the loving presence of favorite and not-so-favorite people — grab that glass and drink! I’m just saying that as an adult-in-training, my traditions instruction was a little…shaky. But I get it now, after years of toiling and trying so hard to create my own sparkly family traditions, after being blessed with two very different boys and a husband who sometimes worked holidays. My childhood training was actually very spot-on! My parents — unintentionally with the Brandy Milk Punch thing — taught me to be adaptable. To embrace the “what is” and move with it. So with that recent epiphany, I now love that our family tradition at Christmas is this — we are untraditionally together. In some form, in some fashion, we are together. Not forced or contrived, but spontaneous, real and in the moment that is ours. For a short while maybe, and maybe not on Christmas Day. Maybe the Tuesday before. Maybe throwing the football, maybe having hot chocolate. And it’s all good. We love each other, and we are lovingly together in a different way, every single year…our favorite tradition!”
-Cary
unnamed-68“There is a recipe for a Buttermilk Coffee Cake that is OHHHH so tasty and has been a Younkman family favorite for three generations. We make this coffee cake throughout the year and always at Christmas. The great thing is, Steve (who doesn’t cook) is in charge of making the cakes. It has become his “trademark recipe” along with his homemade caramels that he also makes at Christmas time. Every year right after Thanksgiving Steve will ask me, “Did you get the pans for the coffee cakes yet?” He then sets aside a day where he mass produces them, along with our help. We then distribute them to neighbors and friends. For 32 years we have made coffee cakes and this year will be especially memorable as we honor Steve’s recently deceased Mom who made many a coffee cake in her day!”
-Amy
unnamed-5 unnamed-4“Our family’s favorite Christmas traditions include: the kids lighting the candles of our Advent wreath and reading the verses behind the doors on their advent calendars every evening during Advent; Laney performing in Dance Discovery’s “The Nutcracker” at the Trail of Lights; Selling Christmas cards and baked goods made by my kids for donations to support Beyond Batten Disease Foundation at our church’s Alternative Gift Market; and the highlight of the Christmas season for my family is our church’s Christmas Eve candle light worship service and impromptu children’s nativity, in which all the kids, dressed as the characters from the Christmas story, act it out, while our pastor tells the story and the congregation sings Christmas hymns.”
-Alli

Action Item:
Take some time this week to stop and think about what Christmas means to you and your loved ones.

Memorial Day: Skip the Sales & Remember What’s Important

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The legacy of heroes is the memory of a great name and the inheritance of a great example.
– Benjamin Disraeli

by Catherine Hearn

by Catherine Hearn

What’s the first thing you think of when you hear Memorial Day mentioned? Unfortunately what comes to mind is oftentimes– oo! big sales! But as we all know, sales and shopping couldn’t be further from the true meaning of this important American holiday.

On May 28th, challenge yourself to re-focus your attention toward the true purpose of Memorial Day: remembering the men and women who died while serving in the United States Armed Forces.

Here, a few ways you can pay tribute to the men and women who gave their lives this Memorial Day:

  • Show your support and remembrance by flying your American flag
  • Compete in the Capitol of Texas Triathlon on Memorial Day in memory of a fallen veteran
  • Attend the Memorial Day service at the Texas State Cemetery, Monday at 10am
  • Watch the National Memorial Day Concert live from the West Lawn of the U.S. Capitol, broadcast live at 7pm on PBS
  • Watch the National Memorial Day Parade in Washington, D.C., broadcast live on the Military Channel beginning at 1pm
  • Take a moment of silence during the day to stop and be grateful to the people that have given their lives

Remembering our heroes in Downtown Austin.

 

JOIN THE DISCUSSION- What are your Memorial Day Traditions?

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