Most people are about as happy as they make up their minds to be.
– Abraham Lincoln
Do you ever wish that making every day a great day was as simple as waking up and pushing a button? Well, having a life filled with great days may not be as easy as pushing a button, but it is possible by implementing a few simple principles.
As I referenced in last week’s Journal, I subscribe to several positive and uplifting outlets that help me stay grateful, centered and encouraged even when things are legitimately bad, as we all experienced last week during the Boston and West tragedies. One such subscription is Success Magazine, and according to Chris Widener of Success Magazine, having a ‘great day, every day outlook’ must become part of our routine. And, while there will never be a day without some kind of setback, discouragement or unmet expectation, we cannot react to these circumstances. Instead, we must remain disciplined in implementing the following ‘great day principles:’
- Focus on today only. Yes, long-range goals are important. But our focus must be on today. Don’t worry about tomorrow. Make today the best day you have ever had. Realize that when you lay down to sleep tonight you will have just given up the only shot you will ever have at today. You only get one shot at your today, so focus intently on making it all that it possibly can be.
- Embrace your power to choose. Dwight D. Eisenhower said, “The history of free men is never written by chance but by choice—their choice.” When your today becomes your yesterday, you will look back and realize that day was a result of your choices. The moment we realize that we can exercise…free will and choice is when we begin to create for ourselves a GREAT day each and every day! Take ownership of the direction of your life. Make your choices and carry them out!
- Your attitude is up to you. Yes, bad things may happen in your day. When something happens to you, you have the choice: Will you let it get you down and depressed, keeping you from forging ahead and making the day the best one ever? Or will you say to yourself that, no matter what happens, you are on the path to success and no obstacle will keep you from it?
- Live out and act on your priorities. If we want to make our days great, then we have to live out those things that will by definition make our days great. They are our priorities. So, each morning, start out by asking, What things are important to me today? What are the things I need to accomplish in order for me to lay down tonight and know that I lived a GREAT day? Don’t do what is fun. Don’t do what is easy. Do what is IMPORTANT! Live out your priorities.
What do you say? Will you press the ‘great day button’ with me and begin the journey of making every day a great day? The habit may not be as easy as pushing a button, but by consciously focusing on controlling our choices and attitude we will ultimately create fulfilling minutes, happy hours, and gratifying days!
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Point To Ponder:
Do you allow daily circumstances to affect your outlook and ability to have a great day?
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Action Item:
Despite daily circumstance, make the choice to wake up every day and make it a great day!
To your health,
It is so easy for me to let each day go by without making it a great day. I find it difficult to focus on the day at hand without becoming preoccupied with what has to be done in the upcoming days, weeks, months and years. Fear or worry about the upcoming events or even the future definitely keeps me from enjoying my day to the fullest. This week I want to focus intently on the day at hand….and learn to be totally present in everything I have to do and with everyone I come in contact with.
Thank you, Neissa, for this amazing journal! I love you and all of iGnite, and I can’t wait to meet your precious baby that’s about to be here:)
I’m with you Jenni! It is very difficult to stay focused on our blessings and not get caught up in the “worries of the world”. Staying in the moment is not an easy task, but necessary in order to remain grateful. Thank you Jenni. You are iGniting our lives 🙂 Neissa
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